tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post8792808244198937988..comments2023-05-19T05:42:20.855-07:00Comments on The Thriver's Toolbox: What If?April_optimisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-56448127998151760452009-06-14T12:13:28.061-07:002009-06-14T12:13:28.061-07:00Marj, And of course you ARE worthy. Glad you are ...Marj, And of course you ARE worthy. Glad you are saying it to yourself.<br /><br />Kahless, Uncertainty can be scary. When I was a kid, it never brought anything good. Slowly I'm learning that NOW lots of good things can be surprises.<br /><br />Patricia, Yes! The "I don't wants" are much, much easier!<br /><br />Jumping in Puddles, Very wise point. We need to shut out the voices of others to realize our value and what we want.<br /><br />Paul, Welcome! All those are good things to want. And we deserve peace, happiness and joy in our lives. To me that IS the definition of healing--to be able to have those things, to allow those things into our lives. Maybe start with a list of little things. What do you want to eat? What do you want to read or see at the movies? I learned so deeply as a child to not want what I couldn't have that as an adult I had to begin with things I clearly could have. <br /><br />Colleen, Will do!April_optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-562253526095466992009-06-07T06:24:15.851-07:002009-06-07T06:24:15.851-07:00I just found your blog and look forward to reading...I just found your blog and look forward to reading it. To be honest, I thought about this for many minutes and I cannot come up with a good answer for what I want. I cannot say 'I want to be healed' because that's too broad, right? I want to be safe? I want to be happy? I want to be at peace? I want to be more aware? Paul.Paul from Mind Partshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16327940093749165270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-55988176853519030882009-06-05T21:20:48.307-07:002009-06-05T21:20:48.307-07:00when we doubt we are worth it we shut all people o...when we doubt we are worth it we shut all people out of our life and remind oursevles why we matter, once we have got the engative out the positive is easy to come in and we see things much more clearly.jumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-34963602119018653682009-06-05T10:16:18.481-07:002009-06-05T10:16:18.481-07:00Thanks for stopping by in your support of The Blog...Thanks for stopping by in your support of The Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse. Just wanted to say hi and say that I appreciate the support.Marj aka Thriverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825698906631474866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-40128818746268628012009-06-02T20:57:33.794-07:002009-06-02T20:57:33.794-07:00Knowing what I want is something I have had to wor...Knowing what I want is something I have had to work on as well. I can quickly tell you what I don't want. What I want comes slower. Yes, I am worthy. So are we all.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-16457260426165962442009-06-01T14:36:44.675-07:002009-06-01T14:36:44.675-07:00I want certaintty. I hate the unknown. Alas that...I want certaintty. I hate the unknown. Alas that one is out of my reach.Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-89938387417803206582009-05-30T17:50:55.071-07:002009-05-30T17:50:55.071-07:00This is good. For me, there's been a struggle for...This is good. For me, there's been a struggle for a long time feeling like I'm not worthy. Lately, I decide I want something and then I tell myself (sometimes I have to say it out loud) "I'm worth it and I deserve it."Marj aka Thriverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825698906631474866noreply@blogger.com