tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post8218826206532602491..comments2023-05-19T05:42:20.855-07:00Comments on The Thriver's Toolbox: Sometimes Things Go RightApril_optimisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-9085463169961199232007-04-11T08:35:00.000-07:002007-04-11T08:35:00.000-07:00Jumping in Puddles,I think so many of us take this...Jumping in Puddles,<BR/><BR/>I think so many of us take this route and have these beliefs. And it's not altogether a bad thing--the world NEEDS heroes and heroines! The key is how we see ourselves as we act. It takes time to change the expectation of things going wrong and I found it helped to use two key ideas. 1) To continuously ask myself (if I started to feel afraid): WHAT IF things go RIGHT? 2) When things do seem to be a mess/horrible, I ask myself: What is the good/blessing that could come out of this--and how can I make that happen?<BR/><BR/>Marj!!!!<BR/><BR/>(((((((((((Hugs)))))))))) It's so good to see you posting again!!!April_optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-14755480057300953292007-04-10T10:21:00.000-07:002007-04-10T10:21:00.000-07:00Thanks for the safe and gentle hugs, here on your ...Thanks for the safe and gentle hugs, here on your post and also left at my bog. Here are some back to you: (((((April)))))Marj aka Thriverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06825698906631474866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-46895382012222451472007-04-10T01:29:00.000-07:002007-04-10T01:29:00.000-07:00we are rescuers and we do expect things to go wron...we are rescuers and we do expect things to go wrong i think over the years we are learning diffirent but not always and old patternss emerge faster than new.jumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.com