tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post511017613620182040..comments2023-05-19T05:42:20.855-07:00Comments on The Thriver's Toolbox: Strength and ResilienceApril_optimisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-43873915519719489322007-05-30T12:32:00.000-07:002007-05-30T12:32:00.000-07:00Jumping in Puddles,See my latest post. I didn't t...Jumping in Puddles,<BR/><BR/>See my latest post. I didn't think it would be enough, you see, to say "yes." I do think that partners can focus so long on us and our problems that they do not look at their own--until we don't need them to "fix" us or take care of us anymore. (Not that we necessarily ever did, but it is a common mindset for couples to be in when one of them has been abused.)April_optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-32619480695645271832007-05-27T21:24:00.000-07:002007-05-27T21:24:00.000-07:00Just wondering if you agreed with this statement t...Just wondering if you agreed with this statement that our T said the other day about our marriage she said 'the stronger you get the more i have found the partners problems show up" she was talking about us of course but in her experience alsojumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-30707516060793145782007-05-27T12:44:00.000-07:002007-05-27T12:44:00.000-07:00Keepers,You're very welcome. I believe to the bot...Keepers,<BR/><BR/>You're very welcome. I believe to the bottom of my soul that changes happens and we grow most when we believe in ourselves and our strengths.April_optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20677845.post-71862307167375659632007-05-25T18:19:00.000-07:002007-05-25T18:19:00.000-07:00Hi April optimistyou write so many truths in this ...Hi April optimist<BR/><BR/>you write so many truths in this blog we lost count and it isn't that long, but full of truths! ones we all need to realize and then hold on to, which you are good at reinforcing. thank you for reminding us of some things we may have forgotten.<BR/><BR/>hugs to you also!<BR/><BR/>keepersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com